Free Dating Traps That (bridesmaid jewelry gifts) You Must Avoid
No commentsBy rodrigo rehn
There are so many aspects to the dating game. It starts off with a small wish like to have someone to share your little joys and sadness with, someone on whom you can rely without receiving any judgmental responses.
This wish leads to the search for suitable prospective dating partners with in-depth research. This further leads to making the best choice among the various available ones.
This further paves the way for taking precautions while dating and ultimately avoiding the concealed traps which you are totally oblivious to as you are on a high with the dating game. Here are some free dating traps that you must avoid. Recognize these signs and have fun playing the dating game.
Suppressing your true desires
Many of you must have joined this dating game just for some fun and are not actually looking out for any serious relationships. This is the idea you form and convey to others.
But this is merely camouflaging your true feelings by saying that you do not want any long term commitments, which you actually do. This is one of the free dating traps that you must avoid to stop causing you more damage than you contemplate.
Donning the compassionate angels mantle
This is one of the free dating traps that you must avoid to make you feel like an angel sent to rescue the hapless mortal.
You come across someone who has had a heart break or who life is in smithereens due to the unending struggles. In such a scenario your extremely soft heart melts and you take the responsibility of bringing some joy and love into this persons life.
Believing in fairytale romances
Almost all of you are victims to some degree of this free dating trap that you must avoid. You are supposedly one of the dreamers who have been fed too much of fairytale doses misleading you to think that there is out there someone meant only for you and you do not have to do anything to get your partner. You are destined to meet this partner of yours someday somehow. Wake up!
Fear of being alone due to less numbers
Sometimes you may not find too many members who share the same thoughts as you or who are on the same compatibility level as you.
So you go ahead and compromise by choosing whatever is in front of you. Your relationship is doomed if you do this. How long will you be able to sustain your relationship based on compromises?
Impatience is not a virtue
Some of you mistake the ongoing chemistry and the immediate sparks to be a sign of compatibility and rush into relationships, either sexual or long term commitments. Give yourself time. Test your relationships against the oncoming obstacles. This is another free dating trap that you must avoid.
Rodrigo Rehn is a Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating services for singles.
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How One Act of Disrespect Killed the Real Estate Deal
By Dave Clocker
Remember the GOLDEN RULE?
It states that you should “Do unto others as you would like them to do unto you.”
It was a beautiful summer day when Carl received a phone call from another agent requesting an appointment to see the inside of the house Carl had listed. The agent specified a time to drop by the following day and Carl told the agent that he would call to confirm the appointment with the occupant of the property. Carl called, confirmed the appointment, and called the agent back the same day. The agent had given him two phone numbers to call back and he called both numbers. Each time he called, a voicemail came up and prompted him to leave a message. He left messages on both phone numbers for the agent to call him back so he would know they have received the message and are confirmed for the appointment the following day.
Thinking he would try again to reach her, Carl dialed her number again and a live person (not the agent though) picked up the phone. He left a message with that individual to have the agent call him back. The person indicated that the agent was out showing homes and would return the phone call. Carl NEVER received a call back! Whoaaa! Is Carl supposed to be cool about this? Isn’t this rude?!
Can you count on one hand only the number of times agents do this? Why are some agents so unprofessional and do not return the phone call when they are the one who initiated the request for an appointment? I find this to be rather rude. The proper thing would be for them to have the common courtesy to call back to either confirm or cancel the appointment. Don’t just ignore it. All it takes is a phone call to reply either way. That way, the occupant would be aware of the situation too. These are the same people that make appointments and never show. If the roles were reversed, I’m sure the agent would not be pleased if they were in Carls shoes. Maybe they had forgotten the Golden Rule…whatever the case may be they should learn to show some R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
How would you handle the situation? In my informal survey of this issue, Ive gotten a multitude of responses on how best to address this. One person suggested calling the agent’s broker to complain about this, however, they also felt the broker most likely wouldnt even care. Another advised calling the agents two phones and saying you are cancelling the showing since you did not hear from her/him. Some suggested sending an email to the agent who did not call back to notify the agent that the messages were left on their two phones to see if you get an explanation. Others suggested that in the future, practice preventive medicine by not allowing the agents to come see the home unless they have confirmed the appointment beforehand. One response even suggested treating other agents the way THEY want to be treated. So, in the circumstance described, it is obvious the agent likes to be treated poorly…otherwise she would not have treated others so badly! One day, shell get a nice dose of her own medicine.
Some agents suggested that it is best to put the matter aside and to concentrate on matters that are less draining on the mind and body. Who knows what happened to the agentmaybe they had a sick child and forgot to call back, maybe they had a flat or maybe they didn’t get the message because by some miracle, both of their phones ran out of battery or got left at home, or maybe they are simply really rude. Its easier just to give them the benefit of the doubt and not let it get to you. It is better to drop the bad spirits and to move along.
The sad part about this situation is that the sellers who hired these agents most likely are not even aware that the agent could be the cause of the house not selling. There are many occasions where other agents need responses to questions before they submit an offer or where they need to schedule an appointment to show the home, however, because the agent representing the seller is not responding, nothing happens. Along the same lines, the non-responsive agent could be the reason why the buyers cant get into the homes that would have suited them perfectly if their agent had taken them to it.
There are many points to this article, the central one being that it is critical when dealing with others in a real estate transaction to be considerate of them. Eventually, agents such as the one described in this story will find that their attitude and lack of professionalism will choke their ability to work with buyers and sellers and they will end up losing in the long run. The formula for successful relationships starts with respect of someone else’s…(you fill in the blank)we should treat others as we would want to be treated.
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Learn How to Make e-Relationships Work
By rodrigo rehn
Dating sites…so many people…single with nothing to do, bored and miserable, maybe. You are browsing and you need someone to talk to, what questions would you ask? Or would you ask yourself if they can change your life for better? Would you allow that person change your life? How far are you willing to go?
The answers depend on you if you have the courage to let an online relationship develop and change in a normal healthy relationship.
Do online relationships really work? The answer is yes, and it can change your entire life for better and forever; although, there may be some debacles or mistakes that can put an end to the relationship between two people that could have had a good future together. So keep these things in mind:
Do not take people for granted. If you do not take them seriously, you will be treated the same way.
Being too secretive and restrictive will not give way for a relationship to develop and grow. If you do not say anything about yourself, nobody will.
Just like any relationships, trust or lack of trust is a great deterrent. There are many ways to check if a person is worthy. In online dating and relationships, everything is bound by trust. No one would be wasting his or her time finding a potential partner in a dating site if it does not serve the purpose.
Express yourself well and do not be shy if you are interested in someone. Speak your mind and let the person know how you feel.
If fear of disappointment or becoming a victim of someone with bad intentions befall you, then it would be easy to stay away from that person. Learn how to read the signals and do some more probing if you are in doubt.
Being skeptical about e-relationship becoming more than what it is will get you nowhere. The rule is: Whatever you give, that is exactly what you get and even much more if you believe.
Make the person feel important even if you met him/her online. The relationship is no different than the real-life situation. If you become fond of each other, prioritize and treat him/her special in your life; otherwise, you will end up losing the person.
If both of you feel that talking online becomes boring, then initialize the next step in knowing the person more, exchange phone numbers. Maybe each time to hear each others voice now. This also prepares you for the next step, meeting each other in person.
Never be pretentious. Being somebody that you are not will end any relationship. Be sincere and be honest right from the very start. You never know what happens next. You might just have met the match of your life and not being truthful is a stupid mistake.
Problems are normal for couples online or offline. The effort to solve them together is healthy. Every human is unique, so if it happens that you lose that person after trying everything, then you lose him for good.
Are not you glad that the Internet technology had given you the chance to meet your match online? So dos not waste it.
Rodrigo Rehn is a Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance free online dating.
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